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After a much-anticipated weekend in my University city, for one last hurrah before I settle in at Mom's for the summer.... it had its ups and downs.

Friday night I had made plans to go out to dinner with a boy we'll name Coffee Cutie. I met him on-line when I was signed up to that free site (I have since deleted my membership). We talked a few times and met a few weeks ago for a cup of coffee. I was face to face with a total cutie with gorgeous green eyes and a grin hot enough to make me melt (dimples, anyone!?). So when he asked to hang out again I was thrilled. He is very nice, educated (Masters in Engineering), and has a good boy charm (but tries to be a bad boy: hence his crotch rocket & pickup truck). I'm drooling on my keyboard. We went to a pub for dinner and it was lovely. The conversation was good, although he is on the shy side and I'm Miss Motor Mouth. We parted ways because I had plans to go to my fave. bar in the world with my fave. band playing. He said I should call him should I need a ride home from the bar, and then I reminded him I live 1 block away and called him on that booty call type proposition. He then replied with a: "I believe two people can share a bed without fucking". Awww...... I was sold. lol.

So we went out, the band was alright. They were very anti-social compared to their usual selves, so that was a let down. Usually after they're done for the night they stay around and chat for at least an hour. That night they left almost as soon as the lights were on. I walked home and proceeded to call my Coffee Cutie. We chit chatted for a while and I asked him if he wanted to come over. He did, and was such a sweetheart. We layed in bed and cuddled, kept all our clothes on, no heavy petting, and a good dose of some sweet kisses.

Saturday night we decided to brave the bar again, us girls. It was a whole lot of shittyness. I ran into a guy I dated last summer and he was sort of a dick to me in person, even though we talk on msn frequently. Then, who do I run into: FLOWER BOY. HA. That asshole. Anyway so like in my previous post I decide to still be nice to him, he offers to walk me home. I think fine maybe we can talk and clear the air about our misgivings. He leaves me for a sec to "go talk to the boys" and in the meantime I make my way towards the bathroom. There he is, talking to this chick. She had been chasing him all night and I had noticed this. So I never said a word, and walked out of the bar. The band was also anti social, its making me question my loyalty to them... kind of the last time i'm wasting gas to go see them if they're not going to even talk to me.. I mean we were friends, and before we talked all the time about everything until the wee hours of the morning...... why the sudden change?

So high points: Coffee Cutie... we still talk and hopefully we will hang out again soon. Too bad he lives an hour and a half away.........