Alright guys and gals... the blog kind of came to a screeching halt for a while there... I want to make excuses, but I really don't have any other than I became lazy and didn't feel like writing.
The last timeI blogged I was talking about "S". Well that ended pretty much as fast as it started. Which is okay, because this guy is a very cool guy, and had the guts to tell me that it wasn't going to work out for him. I'm telling you, it makes the world of a difference when someone has enough respect to do that. Him and I can remain friends and be civil, especially that we're bound to run into eachother again.
After the whole "S" fiasco I spent a long time dateless, and just in general 'boy-less'. I did decide to sign-up again on that dating website, haha. Sucker aren't I. Almost right away I got a TON of messages... I guess my picture was really hot... lol. I started conversing with a cute guy that had the most gorgeous dog ever. hehe. Him & I hung out A LOT for 2 weeks, and he was way more into me than I was into him... and came on really strong. Something in my gut told me he just wasn't the right one, which was hard because he was a perfect gentlemen and just an overall nice guy.
Not long after I saw a picture of a guy I thought was very cute. Now, its important to note that I NEVER EVER message guys first...but something about this guy was appealing, so I messaged him. He messaged me back and we did this a couple of times before exchanging emails. We chatted on msn for about 2 weeks and it was like hanging out with an old buddy. We really had funny and interesting conversations.
It also turns out that I had met this dude before. I want to call him "Hottie". We're talking YEARS here, grade 10 to be exact. We met through a mutual friend (they went to a different high school than me). Before you know it this guy is exchanging phone numbers with me. He calls me and we make plans. Long story short the next day I show up at school all excited to go on a date later that night and tell all my friends about it. And like the teen movie scene this is, you guessed it, he never shows up. So I got stood up. I never spoke to him again until upon chatting with him I realized it was him I was chatting with. I told him the story, we laughed, and he tells me he's changed a lot since then.
We've been hanging out and getting to know eachother for the last month. It's been great, we've had lots of fun and lots of laughs. We get along famously and everything just seems to flow with us. Lets just say I am very smitten about him! And this is the first time it's happened with a boy in a veeeeeerrry long time. We have electric chemistry. Hottie is so cute, its insane. I am soooo attracted to him. He is the opposite of my last couple of exes...hehe. He's about 6'2", lean muscle, warm eyes that sort of change from green to a light brown. His cute grin and his constant joking around makes him irresistible!
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Brown equestrian boots
So I pulled away from the blogging for a while - I guess my life just unexpectively got busier, or something.
Since my last post a few interesting things have happened. For one, Coffee Cutie came up and visited me one evening. We had a great time laying around relaxing, and after a great night of sex he was on his merry way. We have since not really spoken to eachother a whole lot, and I think we both realized that we were at our 'make it or break it' point. The relationship thing is not an option for us for different reasons, and I'm totally okay with things fizzling out.
I also began hanging out with a new guy. Maybe I just didn't want to write about it here and jinx it - ahh that's a good excuse for not blogging!
We're going to call him S. I met S through my engineering friends. Seriously - what is it with engineers and me!? He's the third I've been involved with so far! hahaha. He was at a little soirée I threw, and we just got to talking from there. Having a bunch of guy friends help - to meet other guys that are more dateable (in my eyes) than the actual friends.
S and I have hung out a few times alone, and within our group. We've had a couple of sleepovers, but have not had sex yet. The fun part of all this is that the rest of the group has no idea what is going on between us. I like it better that way - they're the type of immature boys that tell eachother everything about their sexcapades... nothing wrong with that - I just don't want to be the subject of that particular conversation.
So for now I am still single - S & I aren't taking this too serious, too fast. It's good to just take it chill.
Since my last post a few interesting things have happened. For one, Coffee Cutie came up and visited me one evening. We had a great time laying around relaxing, and after a great night of sex he was on his merry way. We have since not really spoken to eachother a whole lot, and I think we both realized that we were at our 'make it or break it' point. The relationship thing is not an option for us for different reasons, and I'm totally okay with things fizzling out.
I also began hanging out with a new guy. Maybe I just didn't want to write about it here and jinx it - ahh that's a good excuse for not blogging!
We're going to call him S. I met S through my engineering friends. Seriously - what is it with engineers and me!? He's the third I've been involved with so far! hahaha. He was at a little soirée I threw, and we just got to talking from there. Having a bunch of guy friends help - to meet other guys that are more dateable (in my eyes) than the actual friends.
S and I have hung out a few times alone, and within our group. We've had a couple of sleepovers, but have not had sex yet. The fun part of all this is that the rest of the group has no idea what is going on between us. I like it better that way - they're the type of immature boys that tell eachother everything about their sexcapades... nothing wrong with that - I just don't want to be the subject of that particular conversation.
So for now I am still single - S & I aren't taking this too serious, too fast. It's good to just take it chill.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Black knee high stilleto boots
You know, it's been a lame-ass week with nothing exciting. Yet, I still managed to procrastinate on writing a post for last weekend. It turned out quite fun - as anticipated!
Friday night was a casual supper at the pub with the usual crew and then me and my girlfriend went to the country bar for a night of dancing. It was alright, except that some dude decided to pour his beer down my back and just flash me a stupid grin right back. He was a brown man... and swear to god if it wasn't politically incorrect I would've told him to stay at the Kwick-E-Mart. Anyway we left after that because it was just a lame night at the bar.
Saturday was quite fun, ended up at the Boys' house for some drinks, then the student bar. Seeing as it was the ever-so-fine Mr. Alexander Keith's birthday celebration I celebrated by drinking his product. Haha. The night is sort of a quick blur. It turns out that it was me and 5 of the boys out that night - guaranteed good times! So we sat at the table and chatted as we got more and more drunk...
At some point we all got seperated and I had one of them buying me beer, and the other trying to grind with me on the dancefloor...ahh. fun! Then later on in the night I spotted a boy I had met 3-4 years back at the bar. Him and I just became acquaintances and chatted once in a while when we ran into eachother. Anyway, this dude is really gorgeous and I decided that I was going to kiss him right there at the bar. HAHHaahaha... ahh lord, I don't even remember the last time I had done that. Luckily, it was the end of the night and time to go home. He walked back with me and we fooled around in bed. We didn't end up going all the way - I think there was a case of WD or something... eish. It's for the best though, because we're clearly not going to start dating!
Friday night was a casual supper at the pub with the usual crew and then me and my girlfriend went to the country bar for a night of dancing. It was alright, except that some dude decided to pour his beer down my back and just flash me a stupid grin right back. He was a brown man... and swear to god if it wasn't politically incorrect I would've told him to stay at the Kwick-E-Mart. Anyway we left after that because it was just a lame night at the bar.
Saturday was quite fun, ended up at the Boys' house for some drinks, then the student bar. Seeing as it was the ever-so-fine Mr. Alexander Keith's birthday celebration I celebrated by drinking his product. Haha. The night is sort of a quick blur. It turns out that it was me and 5 of the boys out that night - guaranteed good times! So we sat at the table and chatted as we got more and more drunk...
At some point we all got seperated and I had one of them buying me beer, and the other trying to grind with me on the dancefloor...ahh. fun! Then later on in the night I spotted a boy I had met 3-4 years back at the bar. Him and I just became acquaintances and chatted once in a while when we ran into eachother. Anyway, this dude is really gorgeous and I decided that I was going to kiss him right there at the bar. HAHHaahaha... ahh lord, I don't even remember the last time I had done that. Luckily, it was the end of the night and time to go home. He walked back with me and we fooled around in bed. We didn't end up going all the way - I think there was a case of WD or something... eish. It's for the best though, because we're clearly not going to start dating!
Friday, October 3, 2008
Black thigh high boots
Oh yeah it's Friday! That means the start of a weekend filled with adventures! Such is my life, really. I mean its pretty exciting most of the time.
So I decided against going to my University Town this weekend - I'll make the trip some other time when I am in the mood to hit up my fave pub. I've also decided that Coffee Cutie will have to wait to see me again, because he has made 0 effort to come see me. So 'dems duh breaks, as my Dad would say. lol.
So far, it looks like a typical weekend of drinking. You see, it's Mr. Alexander Keith's birthday this weekend, and what better way to honor the Brewmaster than to drink his brew? Yeah, that's right, there is NO better way! :-) Tonight me and a girlfriend are heading to the Cowboy Bar for some dancing and foolishness. Tomorrow night it'll be the Student Bar for some Keith's deliciousness... So overall looks like a promising weekend in the guys department... hopefully they'll be some sort of action! GEEZ I am overdue! lol.
Can't wait to rant/share my adventures - have a good one.
So I decided against going to my University Town this weekend - I'll make the trip some other time when I am in the mood to hit up my fave pub. I've also decided that Coffee Cutie will have to wait to see me again, because he has made 0 effort to come see me. So 'dems duh breaks, as my Dad would say. lol.
So far, it looks like a typical weekend of drinking. You see, it's Mr. Alexander Keith's birthday this weekend, and what better way to honor the Brewmaster than to drink his brew? Yeah, that's right, there is NO better way! :-) Tonight me and a girlfriend are heading to the Cowboy Bar for some dancing and foolishness. Tomorrow night it'll be the Student Bar for some Keith's deliciousness... So overall looks like a promising weekend in the guys department... hopefully they'll be some sort of action! GEEZ I am overdue! lol.
Can't wait to rant/share my adventures - have a good one.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Put on your dancin' shoes...!
I finally got to hang around my City this weekend! Me and the City had a date... that lasted a quick 48 hours.
On Friday night I joined the usual gang for supper and drinks. Then it was followed by more drinking at a nearby pub. The pub had a bunch of Rookies from the NY Islanders in there - I was satisfied with the level of eye candy! At around midnight I stepped out of the bathroom only to find that most people had already left. Feeling a bit peeved, and discouraged I decided to make my way home since it was still early enough to walk safely.
I had a text from a buddy of mine who was in town (and who also happens to be gay, thank you!) to join him and his friends at a dance club. So I hailed a cab from the street and made my way to the club. I despise that club - and had it not been for him, I would not have been there. This club often turns into thug-ville. And while I clearly don't have a problem with different people, you just never know when a fight will break out. It was still fun though to be able to dance and not really get bugged by anyone.
Saturday was finally the day! I was hosting my housewarming party at my new place. A whole bunch of friends came by, and it was a lovely time. After spending some time drinking, we made our way to the University bar for some cheap drinks and good music. It was a good time, ran into my cousins and got to chat with them a bit. One of my cousins' friends, whom I've also known since we were kids was there as well. He kept telling me that if he didn't have a girlfriend, he'd be all over me. HA! Yeah right...
I'm really starting to have trouble with the whole thing that hot guys only seem to want me for sex, and its the ugly ones that want relationships? It is SO not fair! While I have zero problem with a little somethin' somethin' once in a while... it just gets discouraging.
Which is why I am having a big debate in my head on whether or not to head to my University town on Friday night. You see, a guy I had dated about a year and a half ago will be in town. This guy is like freakin' poison... We got along fabulously and everything was great, then he dumped me because he was moving to another province and didn't want to get attached and do the distance thing... which is fine. Up until 2-3 weeks later I see him at the bar one night and he immediately comes over cooing in my ear about how much he misses me and how I look great and gorgeous and all that BS. Anwyay, we go our seperate ways and later on in the night I walk by and spot him in the corner, totally making out with another chick. Cue in the hurt.
We have since resolved our issues and he has apologized a million times. Still, I can't help but think what a douche he is sometimes, but he's so hot and irresistible I just can't resist... So odds are, I'll be heading over on Friday night... and maybe I'll be able to run into Coffee Cutie on Saturday or something...
On Friday night I joined the usual gang for supper and drinks. Then it was followed by more drinking at a nearby pub. The pub had a bunch of Rookies from the NY Islanders in there - I was satisfied with the level of eye candy! At around midnight I stepped out of the bathroom only to find that most people had already left. Feeling a bit peeved, and discouraged I decided to make my way home since it was still early enough to walk safely.
I had a text from a buddy of mine who was in town (and who also happens to be gay, thank you!) to join him and his friends at a dance club. So I hailed a cab from the street and made my way to the club. I despise that club - and had it not been for him, I would not have been there. This club often turns into thug-ville. And while I clearly don't have a problem with different people, you just never know when a fight will break out. It was still fun though to be able to dance and not really get bugged by anyone.
Saturday was finally the day! I was hosting my housewarming party at my new place. A whole bunch of friends came by, and it was a lovely time. After spending some time drinking, we made our way to the University bar for some cheap drinks and good music. It was a good time, ran into my cousins and got to chat with them a bit. One of my cousins' friends, whom I've also known since we were kids was there as well. He kept telling me that if he didn't have a girlfriend, he'd be all over me. HA! Yeah right...
I'm really starting to have trouble with the whole thing that hot guys only seem to want me for sex, and its the ugly ones that want relationships? It is SO not fair! While I have zero problem with a little somethin' somethin' once in a while... it just gets discouraging.
Which is why I am having a big debate in my head on whether or not to head to my University town on Friday night. You see, a guy I had dated about a year and a half ago will be in town. This guy is like freakin' poison... We got along fabulously and everything was great, then he dumped me because he was moving to another province and didn't want to get attached and do the distance thing... which is fine. Up until 2-3 weeks later I see him at the bar one night and he immediately comes over cooing in my ear about how much he misses me and how I look great and gorgeous and all that BS. Anwyay, we go our seperate ways and later on in the night I walk by and spot him in the corner, totally making out with another chick. Cue in the hurt.
We have since resolved our issues and he has apologized a million times. Still, I can't help but think what a douche he is sometimes, but he's so hot and irresistible I just can't resist... So odds are, I'll be heading over on Friday night... and maybe I'll be able to run into Coffee Cutie on Saturday or something...
Friday, September 19, 2008
I'm finding it hard to believe - you're in heaven
I'm wondering if I ever will get to stay home for a weekend. Since I moved into my own apartment (in late August) I have yet to spend a weekend there. After this upcoming weekend - IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE. For a while, anyway. LOL. I'm still conversing with Coffee Cutie, and honestly I can't wait to see him again. Maybe he can come up to visit me for a change.
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I want to turn to something a little more serious I must mention...
This past weekend my family was plagued with a hardship. My aunt passed away after a lenghty, courageous battle with cancer. She was diagnosed 10 years ago and managed to defy a lot of odds. This warranted a family trip down to the States where she lived - for her wake & funeral.
It is a relief that my aunt is no longer suffering - although it is painful to cope with the reality of never seeing her again. She was a wonderful woman. The plus side of these crumby circumstances are that I got to hang out with all my cousins. We're 15 grandchildren, and 9 great-grandchildren... so it is quite entertaining when we do get to see eachother. Even though I live in close proximity to most, we rarely spend quality time together.
The bigger picture is positive; we got in some great family time, were able to reminisce about the fun memories we have of my aunt, and got to celebrate her life.
DJV 1948-2008 <3
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I want to turn to something a little more serious I must mention...
This past weekend my family was plagued with a hardship. My aunt passed away after a lenghty, courageous battle with cancer. She was diagnosed 10 years ago and managed to defy a lot of odds. This warranted a family trip down to the States where she lived - for her wake & funeral.
It is a relief that my aunt is no longer suffering - although it is painful to cope with the reality of never seeing her again. She was a wonderful woman. The plus side of these crumby circumstances are that I got to hang out with all my cousins. We're 15 grandchildren, and 9 great-grandchildren... so it is quite entertaining when we do get to see eachother. Even though I live in close proximity to most, we rarely spend quality time together.
The bigger picture is positive; we got in some great family time, were able to reminisce about the fun memories we have of my aunt, and got to celebrate her life.
DJV 1948-2008 <3
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Desert Oasis
I guess I have pretty much broken the curse of this desert-dry summer. Over the last couple of weeks I have been quite lucky.
It all started with the spontaneous act of quitting my job a couple of weeks ago and heading to the Big City to catch another outdoor concert, with MAJOR acts headlining. I basically wrote an email to my 2nd place of work on that Friday morning stating my resignation, then fucked off for the weekend. No labour for me on Labour Day! HA.
That Friday night I was waiting for my friends to meet me when the phone rang. It was "Albert" calling me and asking to hang out. Seeing as we weren't in the same city, it didn't happen. He was coming to the Concert also, but only the following morning. He proposed we meet up at the concert and head back to town together on Sunday. I said sure, give me a ring.
Saturday upon arriving at the Concert site I immediately spotted him, I went over and said hi, but he gave me a weird look and practically ignored me. I think had I not said anything he wouldn't've aknowledged my presence. Needless to say I wasn't surprised when I didn't hear anything from him the following day, or since that day for that matter. What a douche.
Over the course of the last 2 months, I had been chatting online with this cute bald guy, we'll call "Baldie". Baldie is a diamond driller and spends 6 weeks straight cooped up in some remote northern location. We had been flirting and chatting online forever, and finally he asked me to meet him for drinks during his time off when he was going to be in town. So we met, he walked me home, I invited him in. The tension was palpable... we ended up having a hot sack session. He left the next morning, and I know I won't see him again - but at least it was a good release!
This past weekend I returned to University town for some good ole girlie fun, and a squeeze of Coffee Cutie in there too. I had to take the bus up, and he offered me a ride to my friends. Awww... shucks eh. So on Friday night I got completely sloshed... and Coffee Cutie met us at my fave bar. I totally declared my 'likeness' to him, he did the same despite not being nearly as sloshed as I was. He was a perfect gentlemen and took me to his place that night. Lucky for me (not!) a certain Mr. Red was visiting, so nobody was getting anything. I do recall us making out for a while though, and then totally zonking out. It's a good think he likes me, because otherwise he might be giving me the number to AA.
It all started with the spontaneous act of quitting my job a couple of weeks ago and heading to the Big City to catch another outdoor concert, with MAJOR acts headlining. I basically wrote an email to my 2nd place of work on that Friday morning stating my resignation, then fucked off for the weekend. No labour for me on Labour Day! HA.
That Friday night I was waiting for my friends to meet me when the phone rang. It was "Albert" calling me and asking to hang out. Seeing as we weren't in the same city, it didn't happen. He was coming to the Concert also, but only the following morning. He proposed we meet up at the concert and head back to town together on Sunday. I said sure, give me a ring.
Saturday upon arriving at the Concert site I immediately spotted him, I went over and said hi, but he gave me a weird look and practically ignored me. I think had I not said anything he wouldn't've aknowledged my presence. Needless to say I wasn't surprised when I didn't hear anything from him the following day, or since that day for that matter. What a douche.
Over the course of the last 2 months, I had been chatting online with this cute bald guy, we'll call "Baldie". Baldie is a diamond driller and spends 6 weeks straight cooped up in some remote northern location. We had been flirting and chatting online forever, and finally he asked me to meet him for drinks during his time off when he was going to be in town. So we met, he walked me home, I invited him in. The tension was palpable... we ended up having a hot sack session. He left the next morning, and I know I won't see him again - but at least it was a good release!
This past weekend I returned to University town for some good ole girlie fun, and a squeeze of Coffee Cutie in there too. I had to take the bus up, and he offered me a ride to my friends. Awww... shucks eh. So on Friday night I got completely sloshed... and Coffee Cutie met us at my fave bar. I totally declared my 'likeness' to him, he did the same despite not being nearly as sloshed as I was. He was a perfect gentlemen and took me to his place that night. Lucky for me (not!) a certain Mr. Red was visiting, so nobody was getting anything. I do recall us making out for a while though, and then totally zonking out. It's a good think he likes me, because otherwise he might be giving me the number to AA.
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